“Good Guy” vs “Nice Guy” Bla Bla Bla

Malibu reminded me that the real me thrives in spaciousness. I glow when I am not walking on eggshells. I rise when I am not shrinking myself to keep someone else from spiraling.

Friendships can change over time. Some people evolve, and some reveal their true colors later on. We tend to trust our friends so easily.

small, consistent activity shapes your body and regulates your nervous system more effectively than random bursts of intensity.

31 — you’ve outgrown the spaces that make you question your worth. you’ve learned that love without effort isn’t love, it’s comfort. and comfort will keep you small if you let it. you are not meant to chase what resists you. the next chapter of your life isn’t about proving how good your heart is. it’s about protecting it. release the people who only show up when it’s convenient. release the ones who confuse consistency for control. release the situations that drain your glow

There’s power in realizing that not everyone is meant to walk beside you forever. Some friendships serve a beautiful purpose in one chapter, but when values no longer align, holding on can quietly pull you away from yourself.

You start protecting it like it’s gold. That means no hours wasted replaying gossip, no energy poured into other people’s chaos. My energy is invested in food that fuels me, rituals that ground me, and habits that actually build momentum.

Living unedited means alignment—no more shrinking, no more masks. When your inner world and outer life match, you move with flow, ease, and glow